David and Jonathan, of Bible fame, were best buds — the kind of friends who probably spent a lot of time together getting into all kinds of mischief around King Saul’s castle. Later in their lives, this friendship was greatly tested. Here’s a free Bible lesson for kids from 1 Samuel 18-20 that tells the story of this amazing relationship.

Friendship is very important to kids. By the elementary years, they already know what it means to fit in with the crowd, and what it means to be left out. At this age, friendships can end just as quickly as they begin. The 

friendship of David and Jonathan is a good example for your kids to examine — and hopefully put into practice in their own lives.

This Bible lesson for kids will help your children see what real friendship looks like, and for this one you will need the following:

• A brief retelling of 1 Samuel 18-20 (highlights below)
• A “commitment card” for each child (a simple index card works great)

After sharing the highlights of 1 Samuel 18-20, remind your kids that just as David and Jonathan were faithful to each other, Jesus is faithful in His friendship with them too. But for any relationship to grow, you’ve got to spend time with the other person.

Ask your kids: what are some ways they “hang out” with their friends? They might say skateboarding, swimming, or playing video games. Then ask: what are some ways they could “hang out” with Jesus? They might say praying or reading His Word.

Other ways kids can get to know Jesus better:

• Draw a picture just for Him
• Write a little worship song giving Him praise
• Memorize a Scripture verse

Finally, give each child a “commitment card” on which they’ll write down one way they’ll spend time with Jesus this week. Bless them with a small treat or reward for honoring their commitment, and repeat the process the following week.

Suggestions for Success:

• • Pair this lesson with our Friendly Feud game for a fun, hands-on way to review the David and Jonathan story afterward.
  • Younger classes can enjoy the same story through our [Bible Story Order Song for Jonathan and David].
  • Ask yourself the same question you’re asking the kids: how will you “hang out” with Jesus this week?
  • For more friendship-themed songs, games, and object lessons, visit our full [Bible Friendship Activities for Elementary Kids hub].